Living life, not so seriously

Refined by Marriage part 4

You will often hear someone say, "don't take yourself so seriously."

It's great advice, but I think it can extend past just ourselves.

What's the point of being married to someone if you can't laugh with them? What's the point of living in a house, having a dog, having kids, or filling your life up with a whole lot of stuff, if you're not going to take the time to enjoy the blessing of good company.

Never take the dishes, the laundry, or the not-so-clean house so seriously that you can't have some fun.

Never take your work so seriously that you can't let it go in exchange for some time to enjoy with your spouse.

In the story of Mary and Martha, Mary chose to sit at Jesus' feet and Martha busied herself taking care of the house and the food. (Luke 10)

Martha asked Jesus to tell Mary what she should be doing, but He refused saying he wouldn't take what she had found away from her.

A good marriage chooses to let the unnecessary things slide from time to time so that they can live life together in all its richness.

Don't take life so seriously - you, your life, and your marriage will all be better for it.

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